For the Love of Christmas
- Liz Flaherty
- 2 days ago
- 3 min read
by Margie Senechal

I have come to the conclusion that baking is my love language--which is why I was late getting this post to Liz in time to get it posted. Okay, back to me and baking. Just for the record, I'm not a happy cook and consider it my nemesis that I have to conquer a few times a week in order to feed my family.

 But, baking--
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As the daughter of a professional cook and baker, you'd think I would've garnered many a tip. And you'd be wrong. My dad was an instinctual cook and if you asked him for a recipe, he couldn't give you one. When I was newlywed, I had to take notes when he made his meatloaf in order to have a working recipe. It never turned out as good as his, but at least my family doesn't protest.
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In the Navy, where he learned his trade, he baked and decorated cakes for two Miss America's who boarded his ship in the 60's--when Miss America was a big deal. For my eighth birthday, he created a Dennis-the-Menace (my favorite comic) scene where Ruff has toppled the table with a birthday cake on it and Dennis yells, "Ruff! It's Margie's birthday."
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I first learned to bake the summer I was eleven or twelve. My sister, Debbie, and our neighbor, Louise had returned to Louise's house to procure a small pan in which to cook a frog that we had accidentally killed (don't ask). Mrs. Hanson distracted us by enlisting our help to bake chocolate chip cookies.
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I don't remember the specifics, but three things stand out to me about the experience. One, Mrs. Hanson told me you never need more than a cap of vanilla--this was before Costco. I've lived by that rule, and it's never done me wrong. Two, she told me I didn't need a new cup for a drink of water, to just use the measuring cup. Did I mention she was the mother of six? And three, I now knew how to bake!Â
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After proving to my parents that I could bake these cookies, I became the cookie baker of the family. I used to bake when family friends came to visit--particularly Karen and Bob, because Bob praised those cookies up and down. Karen wasn't known for her culinary expertise. By the time I reached high school, I had Nestle's Tollhouse recipe memorized.
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As Christmas approaches each year, I set aside a block of time to bake. Since I left retail, I now take a week off in the middle of the month to bake for friends and family. My nephews get their favorites every Christmas and birthday (if I see them).Â
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I have some cookies that are must haves--Snickerdoodles, Chocolate Chip, Life-Like Sugar Cookies with frosting, PB Blossoms, and the original Fantasy Fudge. This year I added Bugga's Molasses cookies--some with a drizzle of white chocolate, and the Canadian specialty, Nanaimo Bars.
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And I had to do another batch of PB blossoms after fumbling my tin and emptying the entire thing onto the floor. No five-second rule for giveaways :-)
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I have already begun deliveries and have a few more going out before Christmas Eve. If you could see my teeny, tiny galley kitchen, you'd understand why I consider baking cookies a labor of love.
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Merry Christmas and Happy Hannukah!Â

Margie Senechal is a Pacific NW based writer who had a short story published in Once Upon a Book Club's 2020 Advent Calendar and writes a bi-weekly column for Great Thoughts, Great Readers on Facebook.
 I don't have anything to hock right now, but I'm hopeful that one day I will and I'll see you again in between the words.
